If you have problems, you would either shout or else be calm for most of the time that you stay at home. Either way your family members would be very uncomfortable with you. They would be afraid to talk to you even on small and simple matters. If you have kids, elders at home might be warning them not to reach out to you for every silly reason. So, on a nutshell you would be treated as a monster when you change your basic nature because of the tension that you may be experiencing at that point of time.
However, you should openly discuss certain issues with your family members so that they could help you. When you clearly know that none could help you as every worst has already been encountered by your family members, then one last hope that you could surely count on is to låna pengar med skulder from the lenders who do not count on the present situation. They would rather believe in your repaying capability as is explained by you.
Not even family members would believe in you to the extent that these lenders would believe in you. Not every family member or friend would be ready to withdraw their money from some reserves or financial ventures that promise good returns. Though you could not guarantee your friends great returns, you are sure that you would return this money. Since the probability of returning the money is not predicted by them, they would honestly deny your request. So, the only option is to borrow from financial lenders who would collect the debt according to your convenience. So, be happy and do not exhibit lot of variation in your behaviour in a way that your family members would get worried about you.